I saw a therapist once who made me write down a list of acceptable ways for people to treat me. Some of the things on my list were:
be nice to me
do what you say you are going to do
be honest
I always go back to this list because I remember being told that my list was pathetic and that these were BASIC human respects and that I should never have to aim so low.
These things are like breathing, and every human should be doing them.
But not everyone does. why?
Keltie Colleen